I have heard it said that when a member of the family has cancer, the whole family has cancer. I have to say that I understand the truth in that, having learned it painfully from losing a sister to cancer in 1997, having a daughter diagnosed in 2014 and another sister diagnosed in 2015, and learning I had it myself in December of 2016. It is still hard for me to even use the word, cancer! It is an intrusive bully that dominates schedules, thoughts, and general wellbeing of all those who are close to the disease.
During those times when the bully distracts us from the important things in life, there are things that we can fight back with. Someone gave me a list (I don’t know where she got it) of things cancer can’t do that I’d like to share with you. It is titled, “What cancer cannot do.” “Cancer is so limited…It cannot: cripple love, shatter hope, corrode faith, destroy confidence, kill friendship, shut out memories, silence courage, reduce eternal life, or quench the Spirit.” As I thought about it, that could be said about any adversary we face. It could be health related, domestic trouble, church issues, job situation, etc. They are all so limited.
Here’s another great promise to hang on to. “Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? As it is written: ‘For Your sake we are killed all day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.’ Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” –Romans 8:35-39
I received some great news from my oncology doctor on Monday. The blood test showed, for the third time, that there is no detectable cancer in my body. She said I am “way ahead of the curve” in my recovery, which will take up to two years. That was a great encouragement, but I wondered, if I have another 19 months to get better, I will be a super-hero! I feel great, with very little residual pain from the injured ribs as well as the surgery.
I’m so blessed by all my official family, as well as my unofficial family. The outpouring of your support, love and prayer is humbling and gratefully received. I love you all.